UNSHAKABLE PARENTING INTENSIVEÂ Â Â
A laser-focused Somatic trauma-informed coaching that helps you and your child feel safe, confident, and connected even in the face of conflict, rupture, or big transitions.
"The most empowering skill you can teach your child is how to trust themselves. The second most empowering skill you can teach your child is that they can trust you.”
~Â Vivian Meraki
DIVORCE CHANGES YOUR FAMILY.
It doesn’t have to break it.
If you’re going through a divorce with children, you know the heartbreak of watching their world change. You lie awake wondering if they’ll be okay, if you’re doing enough, and how you can protect them from the ripple effects you fear will follow them for years. You’re carrying the weight of your own grief while trying to be the steady one for your kids, and it feels like no one prepared you for this.
I understand, because I’ve been there. When my own two children were swept into the storm of divorce, their anxiety was so intense they clung to me at school drop-off, tears streaming down their faces. The parenting books and podcasts I turned to didn’t touch the depth of what we were living. So I drew on my training as a trauma-informed somatic parenting coach to create an approach that restored safety, trust, and joy in our home. Now, I guide other parents through that same process—helping you protect your child’s emotional wellbeing while you navigate one of the hardest seasons of your life.
WHAT YOU'LL GAIN FROM PARENTING DIVORCE COACHING
Ready to move into a new phase of connection with yourself and your kids?
WHO ISÂ THIS PROGRAM FOR
The Unshakable Parenting Intensive is a laser-focused version of my signature coaching program. It’s designed for parents who want a powerful reset that they will continue working on after the program completes. It is a chance to identify and bring awareness to old patterns, conditioning, and to walk away with practical tools that support both them and their children.
You're a good fit if you're:
- You want to feel more confident navigating your divorce or co-parenting dynamic
- You’re afraid the stress might negatively impact your kids, but don’t know how to protect them
- You’re ready for something deeper than a quick fix
- You’re open to exploring the patterns keeping you stuck and are ready to shift them
- You want to help your child feel secure, seen, and connected, no matter what else is happening
This is deep work, not surface-level. But you don’t have to commit to the full program to begin.
Many parents use this intensive as a powerful turning point and leave with clarity, tools, and a new path forward for themselves and their children.
If you're navigating a high-conflict divorce, or suspect parental alienation, I recommend starting directly in my full signature program instead as deeper and more sustained support is recommended for those more complex situations.
I know what it’s like to face anxiety, overwhelm, and grief in the midst of divorce.
But I also know what it’s like to tap into personal alignment and keep walking. To find moments of relief in the middle of it all. And to feel joy, trust, and eventually vitality return as a new version of you begins to emerge.
I created my trauma-informed parenting coaching programs to help other parents move through that same transformation. It’s built around a proven framework that helps you recognize patterns that may be creating disconnection, and guides you in rebuilding emotional safety, confidence, and connection that lasts.
Vee
"I can just see so many things unlocking for me moving forward, like my marriage, my professional life, my family life. I can see myself parenting that much better just thanks to the weeks with Vivian.
I have had the most amazing breakthroughs. And this coming out of 3 years of therapy, that did nothing for me. Vivian is the most knowledgeable, kind, and patient coach I've ever met. I saw tangible results in my life after only 2 sessions with her.
You didn't just change my life. The impact of your work will be felt for generations. My kids’ kids are going to be better adults because of the work that I did with you.
I will always thank the universe for bringing you into my life."
Grant
"Before working with Vivian, I was completely overwhelmed. Every interaction with my co-parent turned into yelling or aggression, and even moving to text didn’t help. I felt disconnected from myself and worried about the effect this constant conflict was having on my children. I knew I was dysregulated, but I didn’t know how to change it. I felt like I was failing as a father.
Working with Vivian has been life-changing. I now understand my nervous system and have tools to regulate in the moment. Instead of reacting, I can stay calm, and as a result, the conflict with my co-parent doesn’t escalate the way it used to. My relationship with my kids is stronger, I feel confident in my parenting choices, and I no longer see myself as a failed father. Vivian’s program is unlike anything else. It’s not just her weekly sessions. It’s the fact that I could reach out between sessions when things came up. Having that kind of support made all the difference, especially in those tough, time-sensitive moments with my co-parent."
Allison
"Before I started working with Vivian, I was struggling with stress and a lack of emotional balance.
An unexpected work change on the heels of a divorce left me feeling disconnected from myself. I knew I needed a change. From our first session, Vivian created a safe and nurturing environment that allowed me to explore what was going on for me.
Through the practices she shared with me, I now manage my stress levels more effectively and have a sense of calm and balance in my daily life. I have also noticed a significant improvement in my overall well-being and emotional resilience.
Vivian's guidance and support has been invaluable in my journey towards self-discovery and healing. I am incredibly grateful for their expertise and compassionate approach.
If you are looking for a coach who can help you connect with yourself and your children on a deeper level, I wholeheartedly recommend Vivian Meraki."
Brendan
"Vivian's approach to Coaching is thoughtful and conscientious. She strikes a balance between scientific and integrative approaches. Establishing or reestablishing a mind-body connection into improving perceptional and emotional self-regulation revealed more insights than I expected.
A result of the practical exercises is I have been able to adopt effective techniques to manage stress, and I am more at ease, even when facing emotionally complex and stressful situations."
Meredith
"I really look forward to my sessions with Vivian. I greatly appreciate the safe and supportive environment she creates; I can share any area of my life and explore freely. She is a supportive, compassionate and inspiring coach, asking me insightful questions that reflect an abundance of life experience, both personally and professionally.
I come out of our sessions with greater clarity and insights about myself, as well as feeling lighter and more motivated. I highly recommend working with Vivian!"